Premarital Sex

Normally this is a question I wouldn't touch with a ten foot pole.

But it sounded like a question posed by someone fairly young but serious.

I was hoping for more details but alas it is what it is.

So here goes,..

First I want to tell you that sex obviously dates back to the beginning of man or none of us would be here. Right?

(It always has, and still does take two people to make one).

Thousands of millions of years before the concept of God, religions or a bible, there was the natural exsistance of sex.

And, reguardless of what anybody, and I mean anybody, tells you, there's nothing I can think of, about consentual sex thats a sin, nothing.

Sin is a religious connotation that's meant to invoke feelings of guilt.

Religions, in a sense, promise to bring us closer to a forgiving God (and for the forgiveness of our sins), by having the faith, obeying the laws and beliefs of the church.(And, of course, aiding in it's financial support)

There are however laws. Some laws, like those governing child abuse at all levels and rape, are absolute and nescessary. Some others, posed at a very small, selected, segment of our communities are clearly, or should be, violations of those indiviual's civil rights. Homosexuality as an example. (Some future day, based on today's laws and moral issues, it will appear we are/were living in the dark ages).

Damn near everone and everything has an influence on our sex lives. Particularly parents, church, school and friends and advertizes. It's endless and unavoidable.

But, remember this, your sexuality remains with you your whole life.

It is and always will be your sexuality and can range, at different stages, from being fun, to being capable of a loving and deeply pleasureable experience.

Treat your sexuality with respect. It can and is a strong and powerful emotion. Stronger than love.

Obviously, your going through a period of confusion now.

Get use to it, sex will do that to you most of your adult life.

I know this isn't the simple speech you were hoping for.

I'll try finishing up. I just wanted to give you some idea of what your dealing with.

To make sure before you do anything, you know something about it.

Do not, under any circumstance, have sex for all the wrong reasons. LIke pier pressure from friends or boy friends. That's just plain stupid.