Unfaithful Wife

Hi Alice,

Your letter is important for me. You're asking the advice about finding your way in life and the meaning of decision that you will take is incredibly important for the future of your family and you. You shuld be very careful because every way you'll choose will be the reason of unhappiness for somebody. From one side are your loving husband and children and on the other side is the man who's helped you rebuilt the house and he loves you too. So you have to think and come to a wise decision.

I can just recommend you to compose your mind as much as you can and not to think only by heart in this situation.

If you choose to run off... The mother of three children with a loving husband, it's really stupid, it's my opinion. I can understand that sometimes you want to feel again exciting moments of love which has just begun and your life without it seems boring and you will run off with the only person that is all your life at the moment... but you are not a young unresponsible girl without family and children. You have to think not only about yourself,actually.

If you can't find the peace of mind, you're tired to be at home and you need something cool and fresh -- it's up to you, try to find it! Sports, educations, friends, all the world with its ways are open and you have to open your mind also. There are not only the love and emotions in life but many things. I hope you'll follow my advice and have the moral courage to refuse an offer to run off with somebody who you fall in love with.

Take care and remember that a wise woman is one who has a great deal to say and remains silent.

Abby