How Does Body Language Affect the Communication Process?

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How does body language affect the communication process?

Introduction

Communication is the process through which human beings relay information from one person to the other or from one location to another. There are various modes of communication including electronic devices, written word, face to face verbal communication, gestures and many others. Of all forms of communication only face to face communication is aided by body language, making it the most effective form of communication. When having a conversation with a friend, communication experts claim that 50 to 70 per cent of the message is passed across by one's body language. As a result, face to face conversations are deemed to be the most effective form of communication. No wonder job interviews and court proceedings utilize this mode.

Effects of body language to communication

Body language includes gestures, postures, signals and facial expression that people use when communicating face to face. Apart from very skilled actors and psychiatrists, most individuals make use of body language unconsciously. This means that it is difficult to lie using body language. It is therefore advisable to pay attention to a person's body language in order to gauge his or her sincerity. Most dishonest people avoid eye contact when conversing. They may also appear nervous for no apparent reason and their speech might be fast. They also overuse gestures. Should one notice two or more of these of these signs concurrently, then they should question the integrity of the individual.

Some feelings are hard to express verbally, and body language is used to express them. Often times, it is considered rude to state what one feels about a particular person directly. An example would be if a person dislikes another. He may not express it directly when conversing with the subject of his dislike, but his body language will most likely betray him. he most probably will assume a body posture facing away from his adversary. His eyes will be glancing at the nearest point of exit very frequently. His face will show mild frowning especially when the adversary is talking. If the despised person is his subordinate, he may give him the accusing continuous glare.

Body language is invaluable in the dating scene. When a person likes another they have to be sure that feeling is mutual to avoid embarrassment and disappointment. They therefore use body language, albeit unknowingly to express their feelings. They may do this by smiling whenever the person they desire enters the room. Stealing mischievous glances is also common. Ladies may add a sensual touch to their walking style whenever a man they fancy is around, and may lick