How Does It Feel When You Just Failed in Doing Something Which You Very Dearly Wanted to Succeed At?

How does it feel when you just failed in doing something which you very dearly wanted to succeed at???

Has it ever happened to you?? If not, imagine it to be. What would you do in that case?? let us take up a general contemporary case. You want to get into a reputed engineering institute but you failed to bring it to reality. What would be your step?? Jump down from a five-storey building??? Hang on ?? Or just move up with your life?? Don't take it personally but please think of a boy/girl who has just failed to do it, and the family is in every step with unending questions about his/her failure. The family is continuously putting up pressures on the boy/girl. Either he/she has to give a satisfactory answer to the questions of the family, which is just impossible or do something which can make the family forget that particular failure and enjoy the another success, which is practically impossible. This is the scenario of the modern day India, more or less. Yes, it is true that it is not in every case but we can't deny it that it is the case in majority. Should it prevail in future?? The terror is in the fact that this havoc is spreading like a communicable disease which affects mostly the parents who never think of the likes and dislikes of their children but only brings up examples of the neighbouring boy who just cleared IIT-JEE and distant relative who cleared AIEEE and the girl printed on the newspaper who cleared CBSE-PMT. They would simply forget that everyone on this Earth can't be engineers and doctors. Why is this so????