Husband Management

Husband Management

Proverbs 14 vs 1 -2, Proverbs 15 vs 1 - 2

To catch a husband is an art, to hold him is a job well done. Some beautiful women have found husbands but failed to get hold of them, care lacked and the husbands flew like a bird to other nests because of poor management. A woman should be skilled in managing her own husband and her household well (I Timothy 5 vs 14). A husband is like a baby, that needs extra care always and failure to be diligent the wife will be abandoned, which is a very bad state that is not condoned (Malachai 2 vs 15). Whoever finds a husband is blessed, a husband is the best thing to a wife, children, relatives, a blessing in a church, in a community and in a nation. He is not a curse but a blessing. He is the breadwinner, a builder of love, of hope and of a home, he is a god.

But how can a wife manage her husband? To be very loyal and humble are the keys of a happy marriage and as the only proper management of a husband. Where you go I will go, where you lodge I will lodge, your people shall be my people, your God my God, where you die I will die and there will I be buried. (Ruth 1 vs 16). Any loyal woman will neatly become one flesh with her man. But a rebellious wife creates strife always. Seek to understand your man in and out. A wife's whole duty is to seek the husband's love, fulfill his dreams and do his will alone.

All husbands enjoy life in the atmosphere of joy and smiles, laughter, happiness and harmony even if he is poor. Men are like little children interested with small things like parting or soft rubbing or lovely armpits tickling, combing his hair, cutting his nails with joy. Poverty is secondary to him and can be dealt with when he possesses peace of mind with a wife. Learn to speak to him language of love daily, words pleasing to listen, sweet as honey is his ears (Proverbs 16 vs 24). A skilled woman fulfills her duties without supervision.

Body Care - A wife should put more care on the body of the husband for it is her body (1 Corinthians 7 vs 4). Prepare husband's bath despite shower facility; avoid a self service of the supermarket's style. Real love often bathes him as Jesus washed his beloved ones' feet.

Feed him - prepare a husband's breakfast. Happily feed him with skill, with lovely enticing meal, free of flies or cockroaches, let him not leave the house with an empty stomach like a rural chicken or an orphan. Take time on recipes for him, provide the best to him. Give him a token of love to carry on his going out. Satisfy his food desire as a good nutritionist.

Entertain the husband - your number one task as a wife is to give him joy always. The man must feel the wife's presence in him, her touch, smell, sight and be satisfied. You are not his sister but a flesh as an opposite sex not